The "Dear John" letter is the ultimate way of being an asshole to an absent husband or boyfriend. It was used during WWII when servicemen would be stationed oversea's for month's or years at a time. During which they were not seeing, or boning their significant other. So eventually the significant other would desert them for other's, but wouldn't do it in person. And keep in mind most servicemen were getting through this shit FOR their significant other. So you can see how that can undermine you. Most letters would start with Dear Johnny, My Dearest John, or "Darling" so everyone immediately knew what "Dear John meant"
So needless to say, it probably could've ended us morally and is why i consider it one of the most devastating ways to murder someone's self esteem. Male's version was "Dear Jane" but it usually wasn't written when the recipient was AT WAR FOR YEAR'S AT A TIME.
Okidokie, rant over, i just figure it's the worst possible thing to do to someone in that kind of situation. Ya know, at least tell them in person
same site with the "kicked bear in the balls" and "chained to a bunk with a velociraptor" thing, pity they don't have more theoatmeal.com/quizzes (btw do you remember how to rename links, i forgot :P)
actually i think it is Youmu, Yukari and Yuyu have lived over a thousand years (or well i guess have existed in Yuyu's case) so it only makes sense Youmu was a baby once, might have said Yuyuko but Yukari's eyes were pink too